Thursday, September 19, 2013

Mary Gilroy Offers a 'Health Is Simple' Ongoing Seminar at Grace Church


Mary Gilroy of Foxfire, Moore County, N.C., offered free health advice to a group gathered at Grace Church in Southern Pines, N.C., on Thursday, Sept. 12, 2013, for her "Health Is Simple" ongoing seminar.

“If you want real healthcare, you’re going to have to take responsibility,” said Mary, a Grace Church member and a tall, thin former Lt. Commander who served 10 years in the Navy.

She grew up on a farm in the Madison, Wisconsin, area, where her father was an attorney. She has two older brothers and a younger sister. She is part owner of Raider Tactical LLC and also coaches weight loss and natural health as a way of sharing her passion for health with others. Her interest in health, nutrition and weight loss began in college.  

“As a freshman in college I was 40 pounds heavier than I am today,” Mary said. “I began working out and started losing weight. Then I had to learn how to maintain my weight loss and that eventually led me into natural health and nutrition. Today, there is so much health and nutrition information available that is seems overwhelming to try and figure out what to do. I like to keep it simple and give people practical ways they can improve their health.”

Mary plans to offer once-a-month (each second Thursday at 7:00 p.m. in Room 104) health seminars at Grace Church. 

She is married to T.J. Gilroy, author of “The Holy Hand Grenade,” a book about “How to get what you really want, really!” (Find his blog at www.thomasjgilroy.com.) A graduate of the University of Virginia, T.J. spent 12 years in the U.S. Marine Corps and served as a Cobra Helicopter pilot. He works as vice president of sales for Quantico Tactical in Aberdeen, N.C. He and Mary lead “Chosen for Greatness,” a “small group” about finding your gift and passion. The group meets at Grace Church. T.J. also leads “The Holy Spirit in You,” a small group meeting at the church.


Mary used a power-point presentation to share information on physical health and some mental and spiritual health advice. She began her presentation with a photograph of a lion’s head and this quote by St. Augustine projected onto her screen: “The truth is like a lion. You don’t have to defend it. Let it loose. It will defend itself.”

Heath Care Costs 

As Mary began her seminar, "Health Is Simple," she asked, asked the Grace Church group where the U.S. ranks in life expectancy. A few attendees made guesses.

“Fifty –third,” she said. “It used to be 46th. Right above us is Taiwan.”

She noted that the U.S. now averages $8,000 per person per year for health care costs and that the average U.S. doctor – probably contrary to popular thinking – earns only $130,000 each year. The average U.S. doctor is finally out of debt at age 52, she said.

“How many pounds of sugar per year do we eat [in the U.S.]?” she asked.

More guesses.

“One hundred and thirty pounds per year,” she said. (That’s the present average for each U.S. citizen, and some writers list higher estimates than 130 pounds.)

She said each person averages taking in 10-15 pounds of salt each year and perhaps 10 pounds total of chemicals, synthetic vitamins, food coloring, etc.

She quoted Hippocrates: “Let your food be your medicine and your medicine be your food.”

Mary’s father died at age 54 when she was 15 years old.

“He had his first heart attack at 35,” she said.

Health and Fear

She said one should check his motive for wanting health. Is that motive “fear”? The Bible (NASB) offers comments on “fear”:

“For what I fear comes upon me, and what I dread befalls me” (Job 3:25).

For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).   
 “So that we confidently say, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” (Hebrews 13:6).
“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love” (1 John 4:18).
“There’s a piece of it [lack of fear] that comes by trusting that God loves you,” Mary said. “You’re not truing to get something from God. You’re trying to receive what God has done for you.”
We are made up of basically three dimensions: spirit, soul (mind, will and emotions equal “psyche”) and body (involving the senses: sight, taste, touch, smell and hearing).
A Christian has his soul “redeemed” and changed, but his soul and body are not redeemed, yet, Mary noted.
Noting that “eating healthy foods” may “cost more,” she referred to Philippians 4:19: “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
“You’ve got to believe that God wants you to have what you need to have [in order] to do what you need to do,” she said.
She said America’s health care system is already broken and that “new policies will pour more people into what’s broken.”
She quoted Proverbs 23:7 – “For as he thinks within himself, so he is. . . .” – and recommended “As a Man Thinketh,” a book by James Allen.
“Think what God thinks,” Mary said. “The Devil’s primary purpose in life is to pull you off the Word.”
She referred to 3 John 1:2: “ Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers.”
“You do that by confessing God’s word,” Mary said. “Get your mind in the Word.”
 Emotions
She asked if attendees remembered when they used to go the doctor and he didn’t seem rushed.
“They don’t have time,” she said. “[Now] they treat symptoms.”
“But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy” (James 3:17).
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. . . .” (Hosea 4:6).
“Wisdom illuminates knowledge,” Mary said.
She recommended Dr. Don Colbert’s book titled “Deadly Emotions,” which states that thoughts show up in our bodies.
“He [Colbert] says 85 percent of his patients’ diseases are directly related to stress and emotions,” Mary stated.

The IRS and “the law of unintended consequences”
Car insurance is designed to cover “wrecks” and private health insurance (owned by individuals who paid directly to insurance companies) was designed to cover “catastrophic” health developments, Mary said. But the U.S. government, wanting to control inflation during after World War II, told employers that employers couldn’t offer monetary raises to employees. But the government let employers offer health benefits and let employees “write off” those benefits from their federal taxes. After World War II, that plan stayed intact. That’s how health insurance became connected to jobs.
From Wikipedia: “Employer-sponsored health insurance plans dramatically expanded as a direct result of wage controls imposed by the federal government during World War II. The labor market was tight because of the increased demand for goods and decreased supply of workers during the war. Federally imposed wage and price controls prohibited manufacturers and other employers from raising wages enough to attract workers. When the War Labor Board declared that fringe benefits, such as sick leave and health insurance, did not count as wages for the purpose of wage controls, employers responded with significantly increased offers of fringe benefits, especially health care coverage, to attract workers.”
Mary said her husband, T.J., says you follow the money to get to the root of many problems.
“There’s a time when a person’s true character come out: when there’s not enough money on the table – and when there’s too much,” T.J. Gilroy says.

Blood Regeneration
Mary said an 1828 U.S. dictionary defined “pharma” (as in pharmacology) as “witchcraft.”
She recommended “Live Blood Microscopy,” a process that involves looking at a person’s blood cells magnified 1,000 times during an one-half hour appointment.
“Every 90 days we regenerate [all] red blood cells,” she said.

Germs versus pH 
She talked about the “Feud in France”: Louis Pasteur’s theory about germs versus Antoine Bechamp’s theory.
From Wikipedia: Louis Pasteur (1822 – 1895) was a French chemist and microbiologist. . . . He is remembered for . . . breakthroughs in the causes and preventions of diseases. . . . [He] created the first vaccines for rabies and anthrax. His medical discoveries provided direct support for the germ theory of disease and its application in clinical medicine. He is best known to the general public for his invention of the technique of treating milk and wine to stop bacterial contamination, a process now called pasteurization. He is regarded as one of the three main founders of bacteriology . . . and is popularly known as the "father of microbiology."
Bechamp (1816 – 1908) was a French chemist and biologist now best known as a rival of Louis Pasteur.
“‘The Battle for Health Is Over pH” is a good book,” Mary said. That book reportedly emphasizes the role the body’s acid-alkaline balance plays in maintaining optimum health. Many researchers hold that a balanced pH is a foundation component to health and wellness. Some say the contributing factors in all disease can be boiled down to one very simple thing – too much acid.  
 From Wikipedia: “In chemistry, pH is a measure of the acidity or ‘basicity’ of an aqueous solution. Solutions with a pH less than 7 are said to be acidic and solutions with a pH greater than 7 are ‘basic’ or alkaline. Pure water has a pH very close to 7. (‘pH’ [reportedly] stands for ‘power of hydrogen.’”
Antoine Bechamp said it’s not germs that cause disease; it’s your cells not being healthy enough to fight the disease off, Mary noted.
“Does a swamp attract mosquitoes or mosquitoes attract the swamp,” she asked.
She said that Louis Pasteur admitted on his deathbed that he was wrong.
“That whole thing [Pasteur’s theory about germs] invented ‘attack things from the outside’ – not the inside,” Mary said. She said about pH: “On a scale of one to 14, seven is neutral. Below seven, acid starts to back up. Acid leads to disease. In your body, ‘yuck’ thrives in an acidic environment. Acid plus yuck equals chronic disease. . . . Excess estrogen causes breast cancer in women and prostate cancer in men.”
She said people can contract Lyme’s Disease not only from ticks but also from spiders and mosquitoes.

Sugars
Grains and sugars are acidic, Mary said. Use no more than 25 grams of sugars daily and get some of that from fruit.
“There are 16 grams of sugar in one tablespoon [of sugar],” she said. “There are 16 teaspoons of sugar in one 12-oz. Coke.”
“That’s why I drink Pepsi,” said Pastor David Pratt, who sat among the group. He leads Grace Church’s small groups and prayer ministry.
Group laughter.
Mary said grains are not good for humans. Any food made from wheat, rice, oats, cornmeal, barley or another cereal grain is a grain product. Bread, pasta, oatmeal, breakfast cereals, tortillas, and grits are examples of grain products.
“Sweet potatoes are OK, but high in sugar,” she said. “Grains are addictive.”
Fruit is very high in sugar, she noted.
“Your body could live a long time without carbohydrates, and without fruit,” she said.

Protein:
“Don’t eat processed meat,” Mary advised.

Healthy fats and vegetables:
Coconut is a good fat. Canola oil is high in omega 6. Corn oil and peanut oil are high in omega 6. Eat butter (not margarine!), and raw nuts and raw vegetables, she said.
She reviewed the government site (www.choosemyplate.gov) and found it advised eating too much grain, along with other skewed recommendations. The American Heart Assoc. advised eating “whole grains.” She disagrees. She presented her own guidelines for eating shown on a chart called “Mary’s Plate.”  
“‘Wheat Belly’ is a good book,” Mary said. She said one of her brothers “went from 250 pounds to 200” after reading and applying guidelines in “Wheat Belly.”
She said grain is the source of our “issue.”
“Grain puts weight in your middle,” she said. “I’m not a calorie counter.”
She also advised that people should “eat right for their blood types.”
“O+ needs red meat,” she said. “A types don’t need as much red meat.”
Coffee beans are one of the most pesticide-laden beans on earth, Mary noted. And she lemon juice is good to drink; it “turns alkaline” inside your body.
“Commit to cook from scratch,” Mary said. “Prepared foods have preservatives."

GMOs
She briefly discussed GMOs, “genetically modified organisms.”
Added information from http://action.greenamerica.org: “GMOs, or ‘genetically modified organisms,’ are plants or animals created through the gene splicing techniques of biotechnology (also called genetic engineering, or GE). This experimental technology merges DNA from different species, creating unstable combinations of plant, animal, bacterial and viral genes that cannot occur in nature or in traditional crossbreeding. . . . Studies point to the idea that there’s grave cause for concern about the health effects of consuming GMOs and the chemicals they are sprayed with, including food allergies, irritable bowels, organ damage, cancer.”

Stress
“Address your stress,” Mary said. “Most of us live lives that are far too busy. . . . In 1910, the average American got 10 hours of sleep per night in America. The more sleep you get before midnight, the better sleep you get.”
She said we need to “get more Word” into our hearts.
“What is it worth to you to be healthy?” She asked. “You have to swim upstream [to be healthy].”                       

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Two Stories: Four Grace Church Members Visit Fox Hollow Senior Living Community . . . and . . . Grace Riders Motorcycle Ministry Supports “Rollin’ to Robbins” Food Drive


Meg, Jenny, Paul, and Christy pose for a photo at the Fox Hollow Senior Living Community. (Click once to enlarge this photo.)  

Story by Christy Blanchard (pictured above on the right)



This morning (Saturday, August 3, 2013), we met bright and early at Grace Church in Southern Pines, N.C., for the church-wide “summer serve” project for the study we are doing, “Gospel in Life” by Timothy J. Keller.

Those participating in the study chose how they and/or their Bible study groups were going to serve their community. When we got to the church, we registered and received blue T-shirts that said, “Grace Church.” The week before I had signed up to serve with the group going to Fox Hollow Senior Living Community to spend time with people in the memory care unit of the retirement home.

I, along with three other volunteers, arrived at the retirement home, and we were not quite sure what to expect. We brought cookies to share in hopes of winning them over with treats. There were about fifteen elderly people in the main area of the memory care unit and we were instantly greeted and welcomed by a few of the residents. We walked around and introduced ourselves to everyone who was awake, passed around some cookies (although they much preferred graham crackers!), and talked to some about the retirement home. After a while we became more comfortable with the residents and started a game of Bingo. Some people fell asleep during the game and didn’t even know when they had won!

After Bingo one of the caregivers passed out hymnal books to sing out of. Most of the residents perked up at this and we could tell they really enjoyed singing old hymns. Most of them knew them by heart from childhood, despite their memory problems. The lady I was sitting next to started to cry when we were sang, “Send the Light.” She held my hand and told me the songs make her sad but she enjoys singing them anyway.

After singing we went outside and enjoyed the great outdoors. The residents went around and told stories about their pasts and their families, with the help of a caregiver to remind them of their pasts. They were all very proud of their children, talked about husbands and wives, and loved to tell about their past professions in life.

I am so blessed to have had the chance to meet some of the residents of Fox Hollow, and I hope that our presence, handholding, prayers, and hugs made their day a little brighter. The experience reminded me, as I so easily forget, that there is a population in the world that often gets overlooked but desperately needs our prayers. Elderly people who have lost parts of their memory or are unable to communicate need our interceding prayers for health, restoration, salvation, and the peace of Jesus Christ.                                     ###


   
Grace Riders Motorcycle Ministry Rolls to Help    
  Robbins Area Christian Ministries Food Bank




“This is our first event,” says Phil Bivins, of Southern Pines, as he and about a dozen members of Grace Riders Motorcycle Ministry (GRMM) fill boxes for a “Rollin’ to Robbins” food drive organized by the group. 
 
Working at tables set up in the lobby of Grace Church in Southern Pines on a recent Sunday (August 4, 2013) morning, the riders box an estimated 7,000 pounds of non-perishable foodstuffs brought or procured from businesses by the church’s attendees.

The food is destined for afternoon delivery to the Robbins Area Christian Ministries food bank in Robbins.

“You don’t have to be a member of Grace Church or own a motorcycle to be a member of our group,” says Bivins, who leads the church’s GRMM “life group.” “You just need to be interested in spreading the Good News. We have 32 members.”

The group meets at 6:30 p.m. on Thursdays at Grace Church.

“We have excursions planned,” says Bivins, who served as a Navy corpsman and retired as a Navy CWO-3 (warrant officer, nurse).

“Many of us in the group are former military,” says Eddie Nobles, of Whispering Pines, the group’s assistant leader.



 “I’ve been riding motorcycles since I was 16; I turn 61 right away,” says Chuck Laudenslager, a group member and former warrant officer who served 23 years with the U.S. Army. He works at Ft. Bragg and also rides with the Patriot Guard Riders (PGR), Sandhills District. PGR members attend funerals of members of the armed forces, firefighters and police when invited by deceased persons’ families.

 
Michael Fury, of Carthage, a group member who teaches math at North Moore High School in Robbins, says, “My 7-year-old son, Ethan, rides with me. He’s been riding since he was two years old.”

After Sunday lunch, two motorcyclists ride in front of a large loaded-with-food truck driven by Jerry Troyer. The rest of the riders fall in behind as they “roll” to the Robbins Area Christian Ministries (RACM) food bank, located in the backroom of Heavenly Thrift Store in Robbins.

Tony and Donna Haywood of Helping Hands Ministry, Inc. of Moore County and about 15 volunteers from the Robbins area help sort and stock food onto shelves after riders deliver their cache.  
Mary Farrell, owner of West Moore Pottery of Seagrove, works unpaid as RACM’s “food coordinator.”

“Grace Church brought an amazing amount of food – maybe the largest single contribution in the 10 years I’ve been working with this food bank,” Farrell said. “A lot of churches – nine or ten – in the Robbins area work with the Robbins Area Christian Ministries. We have the thrift store, too. Our president is Michael Parenti, pastor of Brown’s Chapel Christian Church.”

The food bank is open from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays, she says.

“We have no paid staff,” Farrell notes. “Needy families may visit the food bank once a month. We give a bag to each family member, who may select ten items for each bag. If we do more than that, we run out. We feed about 200 people a month. That amounts to 2,000 items.”

Donated perishable items such as produce, meat and bread are given “as available” in addition to the 10 items per bag.


Monday, August 5, 2013

Justice and Mercy: How the Gospel Changes Our Communities



The following message by Pastor Randy Thornton was influenced by “Gospel in Life” (published by Zondervan), a book by Timothy J. Keller. Shown in the photo is Randy Thornton, senior pastor at Grace Church in Southern Pines (in Moore County), N.C., as he delivered the message summarized below.


Moore County, North Carolina, has some of the highest and lowest incomes in N.C., according to Randy Thornton, senior pastor of Grace Church in Southern Pines, N.C.
“We have the ‘haves’ and the ‘have-nots,’” Thornton, 55, said during a recent Sunday message he preached to the  Grace Church congregation.
He said that 90 percent of the children in Robbins Elementary School in the northern section of Moore County “don’t have backpacks.” Grace Church took on a project: to buy, and fill with supplies, 518 backpacks (one for each child in that school).
Thornton said God has given Grace Church a mission: “Take The City.”
“How are we going to do this?” he asked, adding that there are three ways:
Love God.
Love Others.
Serve Your World.
“We need justice and mercy in our communities to change our communities,” Thornton said.
Persecution sent first-century Christians out of Jerusalem and to other cities, such as Antioch, a pagan Greek city, he said. At Antioch, Jewish immigrant Christians began sharing the Gospel with Greeks. The non-believing community in Antioch began calling followers of Christ a name: “Christians.”
The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch” (Acts 11:26).
“Changed people change people,” Thornton said. “The hope of our nation is the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Changed people are called Christians. Is your life different enough that others want and admire the thing that makes you different?

God wants to impact cities.

“He [God] loves cities,” Thornton said. “He loves people. Many of the books in the New Testament are named for cities. God wants to bless the cities, so he can bless you.”
When Jewish people suffered exile from Israel, God spoke through Jeremiah, saying, “Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper” (Jeremiah 29:7).
The U.S. was founded on biblical principles and the early American school system was modeled after a Sunday school system, Thornton said.
“We need to become ‘change agents,’” he said. “God wants ‘city transformation.’ He takes a group of people . . . it starts with praying . . . then involvement, government, education, the poor.”
He read Micah 6:8: “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
Thornton noted that God was saying to the Israelites, “You have walked with me, but you’ve departed. You’ve offered sacrifices as a ‘form’ – not out of your heart.”

Mankind is religious.

Man is naturally religious, Thornton said.
“There are people – I was one of them – who know him here [he pointed to his head], not here [he pointed to his heart],” he said. “The revelation of Jesus changed my life. I want to be a ‘change agent’ to the world.”
Thornton discussed Micah 6:8 and read Micah 6:9a: “Listen! The Lord is calling to the city.”
“What is good?” Thornton asked. “What does the Lord require of you? . . . To do justly. To love mercy. To walk humbly with your God.”
He said that “during Jesus’ day” [Jesus’ earthly ministry] the 10 commandments had grown to over 500 rules. Jesus said to some very religious people, “You white-washed tombs, your hearts are far from God.”
“Do you have a religion, or do you have a relationship [with Jesus]?” Thornton asked.

God wants to bless his people so they can bless others.

“What does God require?” Thornton asked. “Faith – faith motivated out of a heart ‘for’ him.”
Jesus gave two commandments: love God and love others.
Matthew 22:36-39 NIV: The first commandment (verse 37) is “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” The second commandment (verse 39) is “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
“God hates your sacrifice if it’s not motivated out of a love for him,” Thornton said. God wants our hearts. What is ‘to do justly’? It means to render to everyone his due, to see your neighbor as yourself . . . do justly to God; do justly to man (neighbor); do justly to ourselves. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit – don’t do things that defile it. (That means your mind, too.)”
God has to punish sin, but “God sent Jesus because he loves people,” Thornton said.
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
“We deserve justice, but God showed mercy,” Thornton said. “We like to receive mercy, but when people have wronged us, we want judgment!”
We need to show mercy, kindness, charity and benevolence, he said.
“As a parent, you have to ‘do’ justice and show mercy, too,” Thornton said.

Humility (walk humbly)

“Moses was the most humble man in all the earth,” Thornton said. “Humility is saying, ‘All I have and all I receive comes from God.’”
Jesus humbled himself – being fully God – to become “man.”
“Sometimes it [humility] is ‘placing the needs of other people above your own – not because they earned it or deserve it, sometimes,” Thornton said. 
How can we, as a people, change our cities, he asked.
“Jesus loved cities; Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness,” Thornton said. “When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.’” (Matthew 9:35-38).
“Jesus went town to town, preaching the ‘good new,’” Thornton continued. “Change people; change lives; change families; change communities!”

Experience God’s love for yourself.

Jesus had an encounter with a needy woman.
“A woman, a woman of the night, probably a prostitute,” Thornton said. “Jesus was eating a meal. She comes. Jesus’ feet – she cries over his feet and wipes them with her hair.”
To the guests at the table, Jesus said about that woman: “Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven – as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little” (Luke 7:47).
“She realized God had forgiven her,” Thornton said. “She was forgiven much; she loved much. . . . Sin is sin; sin would put you in hell. She appreciated what God did for her. She had the Master change her heart and change her life. She didn’t care what others thought.”
Let God’s love become what controls our lives, he said.

Ask God To Open Your Heart.

“A man with leprosy came to him and begged him on his knees, ‘If you are willing, you can make me clean.’ Jesus was indignant. He reached out his hand and touched the man. ‘I am willing,’ he said. ‘Be clean!’” (Mark 1:40-41).
“Lepers had to cry out, ‘unclean!’” Thornton said. “What Jesus does is he kind of breaks all those rules. He said, ‘I am willing; be clean.’ As a good Jew, you should never touch the unclean. Jesus made him feel loved and accepted.”
Every person we encounter is either a victim to exploit, a problem to avoid, or a person to be loved; do something about it, he advised.

Open your life to the needs of others.

Luke 10:30-37 NIV:
“In reply Jesus said: ‘A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead.
“‘A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side.
“‘But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’
“Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
“The expert in the law replied, ‘The one who had mercy on him.’
“Jesus told him, ‘Go and do likewise.’”

“His [the Samaritan’s] heart was moved with compassion for a man he’d never met,” Thornton said. “If you’re here and you want to receive Christ as your Savior, raise your hand.”
He paused and waited for responses.
“Thank you, Sir . . . Ma’am,” he said.  
Thornton led those who wanted to “receive Christ as Savior” in a “sinner’s prayer. He asked them to repeat this prayer as he prayed:
“Heavenly Father, I believe you sent your Son, Jesus Christ, to die for my sins. . . . I ask you, today, to come into my heart. . . . I, by faith, receive your forgiveness for everything I’ve ever done. In Jesus’ name, amen.”

Friday, July 5, 2013

A Surprise Celebration on Sunday Evening, June 30, 2013, for Pastor Randy Thornton and His Wife, Sarah, Who Celebrated 25 Years of Ministry at Grace Churchin Southern Pines, North Carolina:

The Thornton's three daughters guide their blindfolded parents toward the front door of Grace Church's worship center in Southern Pines, N.C. (See more photos at the end of this article.)


The staff and many attendees of Grace Church of Southern Pines, N.C., surprised the church’s Senior Pastor Randy Thornton and his wife, Sarah, on Sunday evening, June 30, 2013, with a celebration honoring the couple’s 25 years of ministry at Grace Church.   

The Thorntons, sponsored by Manna Church in Fayetteville, N.C., moved to Moore County in 1988 to “plant” Grace Church.

The Thornton’s three adult daughters asked their parents to put on blindfolds on June 30 before they chauffeured them to a surprise destination. 

“Rebekah, Alison, and Ashley brought us to the party,” says Sarah Thornton.

Jonathan Thornton, the Thornton’s only son, was working in Tennessee as a Mission Communication Specialist for World Changers and could not attend the celebration.   

Rebekah and her husband, Ryan Peterson (spiritual development pastor at Grace Church), invited the Thorntons and Rebekah’s sisters to their home for Sunday evening (June 30) dinner.

“The card said ‘Family Date Night,’” Sarah says. “After Ashley arrived at our home from Raleigh, she said I needed to change my outfit because she thought Rebekah and Ryan were going to have someone take a family photo. This was not a pleasant thought, as I had been running errands in the rain all afternoon, ha.”

Sarah thought the dinner was going to be Rebekah and Ryan’s venue to tell her and Randy that Rebekah was expecting a second child.  

“I had Randy take me to Fresh Market to purchase a dozen pink roses,” Sarah says. “I hid them in the back of the car. They wouldn't catch me off-guard, I thought!”

Alison Thornton told her parents that instead of driving to Rebekah’s house, they were all going to dinner at a nice restaurant – but it had to be a surprise, thus the need for blindfolds.

“Riding in heavy rain while blindfolded isn't my cup of tea, but visions of Ironwood Café or perhaps 195 [195 American Fusion Cusine] were dancing in my head,” Sarah says. “All was well, until the ‘speed bump.' [Grace Church’s parking lot has some pretty tall speed bumps.] I just said, ‘Oh, no. Grace Church.’”

Ryan Peterson, who emceed the celebration, and a large crowd waited silently in the lobby of the worship center as the blindfolded Thorntons, guided by their daughters, made their way to the building’s front doors.   

“There are no words to describe the surprise we felt as the blindfolds were removed,” Sarah says. “There was a sea of people we loved, all wearing mustaches in order to look like Randy. We were surrounded with love and words of encouragement from many throughout the evening.”

Pastor Michael Fletcher of Manna Church and Pastor David Schmaltz of Valley Community Church in Weldon, N.C., sent congratulations via satellite.

Fletcher reminisced about the Thorntons planting Grace Church “in a former pet store in a shopping center” in Aberdeen, N.C.

Schmaltz, a friend of the Thornton’s for 30-plus years, called Randy a “pastor of pastors” and said, “You’ve impressed me on every level.”

“Words via satellite from pastor friends Michael Fletcher and David Schmaltz were an added surprise,” Sarah says.

Former Grace Church Youth Pastor, Heath Caddell, a Moore County, N.C., native and pastor of Reach Community Church in Leland, N.C. (a church-plant sponsored by Grace Church), offered words of encouragement. He shared his and his wife’s experience of finding Grace Church “in the phone book,” meeting in the Thornton’s home for a weekly twenty-thirty (age group) Bible study, and his going on to become a youth pastor at Grace Church.

“We wouldn’t be where we are today without Randy and Sarah,” Caddell said. “They believed in us.”

Pastor Jerry Daley attended the celebration. Daley founded the Manna Church in Fayetteville in 1974 and organized “mPact Churches” (formerly known as Grace Churches International). Daley and his wife, Nan, live in Columbia, South Carolina, and in Blowing Rock, North Carolina. Daley, alluded to as “Randy’s pastor,” told the audience that he was present at Manna Church when the Thorntons were “prayed over” and sent to Southern Pines to plant Grace Church.

Four Grace Church elders – Tim Brock, Jimmy Coxe, Mark Hurley, and Pastor David Pratt – offered prayers for the Thorntons.

 

Jimmy Coxe, who leads services at the Grace Church Seven Lakes (N.C.) Campus, said about Pastor Thornton, “He never takes his pastor hat off. He’s been a real friend.”

Coxe said three things qualify a person as a church planter: the man, the message, and the mission.

The Thornton’s daughters praised their parents as they stood before the audience during the celebration.   

“We’ve seen so many miracles of ‘God providing,’” Rebekah said.

Alison Thornton told her parents, “You poured into the church and people’s lives and our lives.”

Ashley Thornton said about her parents, “It takes faithfulness in hard times . . . They’re all about God. They want to do godly things. It’s not about the ‘Randy Show,’ preaching; it’s all about God.” Addressing her parents, she said, “Thank your for the example you’ve set for us.”

Many former Grace Church staff members attended the celebration.

The church staff showed a video featuring photos gathered from 25 years at Grace Church, and Peterson announced that the church plans to send the Thorntons on a cruise.     

After the program held in the worship center sanctuary ended, attendees enjoyed appetizers arrayed on tables in the spacious church lobby. The Thorntons sat a table in the church café area of the lobby and received congratulations from individuals.    

Sarah says, “We are thankful for those who worked so hard to make the celebration absolutely perfect. We loved the words of encouragement, the video of years past at Grace Church, the amazing food, and especially the reunion with many friends, old and new. We enjoyed seeing people whose lives have been changed by Christ and who are in ministry. That was a highlight of the evening. However, the most rewarding part was hearing our daughters speak about their faith in God and their experiences of growing up as pastor's children. It was very touching to hear them share how they never felt as if the church was more important than our nurturing of our children.”

She says that she and Randy felt “so blessed” by the church staff who worked to prepare the celebration.

“And we are so proud of and thankful for an amazing son-in-law who is following God's call on his life,” Sarah says. “Ryan did an excellent job of emceeing the event.”    ###

 

 
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